Failure as a Lesson. Intention over Plan.

There can be a subtle fear of failure that feels like a weight around the ankle.
A tendency to hold onto the plan so tightly that it becomes more important than the person holding it.

But the plan can’t be more important than the self.

Choosing to let go of the fear of failure can mean reframing loss as learning.
Approaching any confrontation not to convince or win, but to remain present, to listen, and to stay true to one’s own values.

Today I want to share something very personal.

This morning I got a note from The Universe newsletter. It said:

“Ania, you’re dre-e-e-e-aming…
And whenever dreaming, it’s wise to remember that no matter what may ever happen, the dreamer is always greater than the dream.”

In that moment, I felt it so clearly.
I’m afraid of failing.
This fear is like a weight around my ankle.
I’m trying to hold the plan tightly, as if it’s more important than me.

But the plan can’t be more important than me.

So I’m consciously letting go of the fear of failure.
I’m writing that loss into my lesson.

Yours faithfully,

A

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